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Effort & Mutuality
Look at who initiates, repairs, follows through, and carries the relationship.
Effort & Mutuality
If You Have to Manage the Relationship, Is It Mutual?
If the relationship repeatedly moves only when one person organizes, reminds, repairs, and pursues, the imbalance itself is observable.
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Count the Repairs
An apology can be sincere. Repair leaves additional evidence: changed behavior, follow-through, and less need to solve the same problem again.
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